I haven’t spoken to a single person who hasn’t dealt with adversity in one way or another. Whether it’s the uncertainty of the Pandemic or witnessing the extreme division of the human race over the past few weeks in the media. This massive rift in the consciousness of the planet has made a lot of people emotional.
And when we get emotional
our TRUE COLORS come out.
We often SAY and DO things with minimal thought
and react with pure instinct.
This is therapeutic because being our
True Self feels liberating!
But telling the truth has consequences…
Especially when people close to us have different beliefs.
A person that who’ve you’ve known for decades shocks you
when you see their true colors in a post on social media.
Or over dinner, you express your
honest beliefs,
only to get shut down by someone who
Aggressively Disagrees with you.
This is the ultimate conundrum.
Should I Speak my Mind and
polarize the people in my life?
Or should I keep quiet and
keep my opinions to myself
to not lose friends?
Ask yourself this Question?
Is it better to be liked my many and
NEVER speak my mind.
Or
Do I want to Share my TRUTH in
every Aspect, BE FREE and
Align myself with Like Minded
people that I LOVE
while Repelling People that
HATE ME for being ME?
The truth has a beautiful way of simultaneously
Attracting and Repelling
the people in your life.
At the end of the day,
if you choose to Live your Truth
HATERS will come in swarms.
Please understand that no matter what you do
people will still hate you.
You could literally find the cure for cancer
and people will still talk shit about you.
You will NEVER make Everyone Happy.
Just DO what makes YOU Happy
and Focus on the people that LOVE You.
If someone doesn’t like you
it’s their problem.
Fuck Anyone who hates you
just because they disagree with you!
Live your TRUTH and SPEAK your Mind.
BE who You are and Say what you FEEL,
because those who mind don’t matter,
and those who matter don’t mind.
He looked to be in his 80’s, with deep wrinkles, long white hair, and piercing eyes that have seen many things happen in his long lifetime. He put his hand on my shoulder and told me that I am a special soul. That I am destined to impact the world in a Powerful Way! With that comment, he sure had my attention so I decided to listen to him…
As I was listening to what he had to say, I noticed he had a little brown leather satchel that was hanging from his shoulder.
It looked to be about 100 years old because it was so tattered.
All of a sudden, this Monk put his hand into this satchel and pulled out a beautiful, shiny set of beads.
He went on to tell me that if I wear the beads I will experience Great Success in my life!
At that moment, I leaned in closer and fully opened up to hear what he was saying.
It feels good when some random stranger calls you special and gives you a nice gift. 😁
But, as soon as I accepted it,
he asked me to give him $10 in cash!
I was confused?
For a moment I thought this man was giving me one of his most treasured gifts
and he sure made me feel unique with all his sweet talk.
Shortly after stroking my Ego, he tricked me for ten bucks! 😫
I then said to him,
why would you stop me and say all those nice things when you’re just wanting me to give you money for your beads?
As I was looking at the beads, they lost all of their luster and value.
The elderly Monk proceeded to quickly snatch the beads out of my hands like a Kung Fu Master.
He put them back in his satchel and walked away in anger.
Of course, it wasn’t about the $10,
it was more about the principle.
Why would he give me something with
the expectation of getting something back?
I realized that this Sneaky Monk makes
a Living out of Tricking people.
This is Not an ethical business.
It made me think about other business owners and the Act of
Giving with Expectation.
A big part of Growing a Business is creating something of Value in exchange for Money.
I’ve had an online business for 11 years and in order to thrive,
you have to consistently Innovate & add Value to the Marketplace.
I’ve had the great honor of coaching thousands of people in my online programs, courses & seminars to grow their biz.
In all these years, I’ve realized that the people who GIVE the Most become the Most Successful.
Most times it’s not an equal exchange,
you’re not going to get back in Return to the Exact Proportion in what you GIVE.
Oftentimes, you must GIVE & add VALUE at a High Level, only to get back a small percentage of your Output.
The biggest reason why people Fail is the lack of Consistency over the long term.
Some newbie business owners make a few posts on social media and expect to be a Millionaire. 🀣
Whereas some of the Most successful Entrepreneurs often GIVE without Expectation for Years before they even become profitable!
That is why I love reading biographies and watching documentaries about the Greats.
You soon realize that they had many failures but persisted on their dreams despite all the drama.
The Secret to Success is to Add Value consistently over time.
Sure, you may get lucky and go viral early on, but this is rare.
Oftentimes, it’s Easy Come, Easy GO.
That is why most people Quit early on.
They are Giving with the sole intention of monetizing immediately.
Just like the Money Hungry Monk, you get nowhere fast and ruin your reputation.
If you are reading this and have been adding value for a while and not getting a return,
keep Giving…
If you genuinely help people
And stay true,
You will soon Break Through!
You must realize, Consistency will
Always take you to the Next Level.
I truly Appreciate the people that Stay Consistent,
Give more than they take &
Add Massive Value to make
this world a better place. πŸ™

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