Needing Nothing Attracts Everything

by AJ Mihrzad on

If you think about any aspect of your life whether it’s your business or your relationships, the more NEEDY you are, the more people you repel because Neediness reeks of desperation.

If I’m on a sales call, I’m trying to sell my service to someone and I’m like,

“Buy my shit. Buy my shit. Buy my shit.”

They’re like,

“What’s wrong with your shit and
what is wrong with you?

Why are you pushing it on me?”

Same thing with relationships.

Someone is dating someone else and
they’re texting them all day long.

“What are you doing?

Where are you?

I miss you.

Do you miss me?”

The person is like, “Whoah, whoah, whoah. Why is this person texting me every few minutes? They must be weird”

That’s human nature, because when people push themselves upon us,

in a sense, they give us a feeling that they’re incomplete without us.

if you truly love yourself, you know that you’re already complete.

You don’t need someone else to complete YOU.

And when you have the vibe that You Need Nothing,

You’re happy with everything,

You tend to Attract More of it.

At the end of the day, it’s the expectations we have that throw us off.

Expectations cause suffering.

When you learn to Accept rather than expect,

your entire life will change.

The Pain of Rejection steems from the Tree of Expectation.

Instead, you should know that if someone does reject you,

that is protection.

Rejection truly is Protection at the end of the day.

If you’re dating someone and
you’re doing your best.

At the end of the day they say,

“You’re not a good fit,”

well, that’s good.

You saved yourself from a lot suffering down the road.

There are certain situations where it’s good to persist.

But, at the end of the day, if you’re doing Your Best

in business, in a relationship, in fitness etc

and it’s still not working out to your favor,

then don’t do more of it because

whatever you’re doing obviously ain’t working!

Just learn to walk away from it.

A wise philosopher once said,

“Don’t chase. Replace.”

If you truly Love yourself and
you’re doing your best in that situation.

And it’s not working out to your favor, then change the situation.

because the reality of it is you cannot be in a place to look for

external things to complete you.

Neediness exhibits that something else is going to
make your life better if you had it
you would be complete.

Not having it makes you more desperate.

When you reek of desperation in any situation,

you become very unattractive.

So keep that in mind.

Needing nothing Attracts everything

And don’t chase. Replace.

Always do your best.

Love Yourself.

Know that you are already More than Enough.

And Accept whatever happens to you with open arms.

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